BE the hope

The world is heavy right now and it seems every day brings a new crisis. I don’t know about you, but I’ve been feeling overwhelmed.

So, when I had a recent opportunity to ๐“ซ๐“ฎ the hopeful one, I took it. And you should, too.

Last week, we were at the long-term follow up clinic. After his appointments (with 5 specialists) we made an extra stop to the oncology floor. Saw two of our favorite nurses- Nurse Pam (inpatient, days) & Nurse McDoodle (outpatient clinic). Her name isn’t Mcdoodle, that’s just what our 3 yr old called her.

They were โ€‹๐Ÿ‡งโ€‹โ€‹๐Ÿ‡ชโ€‹โ€‹๐Ÿ‡ฆโ€‹โ€‹๐Ÿ‡ฒโ€‹โ€‹๐Ÿ‡ฎโ€‹โ€‹๐Ÿ‡ณโ€‹โ€‹๐Ÿ‡ฌโ€‹ while looking at him & marveled at his 17 years of survivorship. Pam hugged me hard & she cried just a bit.

It would have been easier to just leave. We would have been home an hour earlier, back to the realities of school and work.

But something told me to go to the 7th floor & see if they were there. I’m so glad we did. In their line of work, they see a lot of sick kids & distraught parents. It’s important that they see kids who make it; kids who made it in part ๐“ซ๐“ฎ๐“ฌ๐“ช๐“พ๐“ผ๐“ฎ of them.

I took pictures and sent them. Pam wrote: “Thank you so much for these! You have no idea how good visits like these are for my soul ๐Ÿ’•โค๏ธ”

Who in your life could use some hope right now?

How can you challenge yourself to be that person for them?

* Forward the job posting.
* Make an introduction.
* Write a LinkedIn recommendation.
* Volunteer.
* Bring someone a meal or flowers.
* Write a thank you note.

Since our visit, I’ve felt better than I have in months. I’m going to focus on keeping this momentum going. Want to join me?

You’ve got this! I’m rooting for you!



Mantra #5: There’s Nothing New Under the Sun

Growing up, my mom was always saying, “There’s nothing new under the sun.”

I have visceral memories of being annoyed by that. I can feel my eyes rolling even now.

What does that even mean?

My 17-year old son hates it when I ask questions. I’m just trying to get information, I say. He experiences them as an inquisition. It’s an ongoing battle.

Part of turning 50 has involved nesting and purging. I don’t want the boys to have mountains of my old sh** to sort through some day.

In that process, I found one of my childhood journals. It’s totally 80s. The Sanrio characters, “Little Twin Stars” are on the front and the pages are filled with my (completely justified) ramblings, jumping from 1984 to 1988.

Lo and behold, at the end of one of my entries, teen Monica wrote:

“When I came home from the movies, my mom kept asking me all these stupid questions. I can’t stand it when she does that!!!”

Turns out she was right.

There’s nothing new under the sun.

Teenagers hate questions.

๐™’๐™๐™ค๐™ค๐™ฅ๐™จ!

Sorry, Mom.

And sorry, kid!

Summer Reading

It finally feels like summer here Michigan. And for me, that means more reading!

Books are an integral part of my life & I’m always referring people to my favorites.

So, to support my local bookseller (Schuler Books), I’ve started a bookshop.org page that I hope you’ll check out.

My shop is full of personal and professional favorites that will leave you inspired, laughing, thinking, or all of the above!

Thanks for your support and happy reading!